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I surrender to vulnerability and open my heart to new connections. I do this scared. 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An abundance of free time arrived via unemployment. I\u2019ve needed a break and"},{"id":"824","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/the-joy-of-the-winter-olympics-milano-cortina-2026\/","name":"the-joy-of-the-winter-olympics-milano-cortina-2026","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/nbcothumb_alysa_liu_getty_2262542970_1920x1080-e1771606266198.jpg?fit=480%2C270&ssl=1","alt":"Alysa Liu, Kaori Sakamoto, and Ami Nakai bit their medals during the medal ceremony for Women's Single Skating at Milano Cortina 2026."},"title":"The Joy of the Winter Olympics Milano Cortina 2026","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Feb 20, 2026","dateGMT":"2026-02-20 17:18:57","modifiedDate":"2026-02-20 12:19:01","modifiedDateGMT":"2026-02-20 17:19:01","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/story-time\/\" rel=\"category tag\">STORY TIME<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/story-time\/\" rel=\"category tag\">STORY TIME<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/joy\/' rel='post_tag'>Joy<\/a><a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/olympics\/' rel='post_tag'>Olympics<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":4,"sec":20},"status":"publish","content":"Antholz-Anterselva. Bormio. Livigno. Predazzo. Tesero. Verona. Milano. Cortina d\u2019Ampezzo. These territories across northern Italy host the events of the XXV Winter Olympic Games, Milano Cortina"},{"id":"820","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/parenting-my-inner-saboteur\/","name":"parenting-my-inner-saboteur","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Screenshot-2026-01-23-at-8.02.57-PM.png?fit=426%2C244&ssl=1","alt":"Nene Leakes with her eyes closed and hands balled up in frustration"},"title":"Parenting My Inner Saboteur","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Jan 23, 2026","dateGMT":"2026-01-24 01:31:12","modifiedDate":"2026-01-23 20:32:56","modifiedDateGMT":"2026-01-24 01:32:56","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/growth\/' rel='post_tag'>Growth<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":3,"sec":29},"status":"publish","content":"Fed up with myself, I snapped, \u201cHow badly do you want it then?!\u201d Yelling at myself isn\u2019t healthy or productive but the steam pressure needs"},{"id":"817","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/living-a-balanced-life\/","name":"living-a-balanced-life","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/IMG_2980.jpg?fit=275%2C367&ssl=1","alt":"Table in a coffee shop with a cup, laptop, and succulent on top."},"title":"Living a Balanced Life","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Jan 9, 2026","dateGMT":"2026-01-09 11:00:00","modifiedDate":"2026-01-09 17:24:59","modifiedDateGMT":"2026-01-09 22:24:59","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/growth\/' rel='post_tag'>Growth<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":3,"sec":1},"status":"publish","content":"A good habit of mine is taking the last two weeks of the year off. Any creative configuration of paid time off in my compensation"},{"id":"814","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/love-to-my-inner-artist\/","name":"love-to-my-inner-artist","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/IMG_0918-e1766023688341.jpg?fit=225%2C224&ssl=1","alt":"Decorated Post-It note that reads \"Put the work in until it works out\", a lyric from Miguel's \"Sky Walker\"."},"title":"Love to My Inner Artist","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Dec 19, 2025","dateGMT":"2025-12-19 11:00:00","modifiedDate":"2025-12-19 13:55:50","modifiedDateGMT":"2025-12-19 18:55:50","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/art\/' rel='post_tag'>Art<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":2,"sec":46},"status":"publish","content":"To My Creative Recesses,We are one in the same. A slow burn that takes time to heat and ignite. We've always been fascinated by everything."},{"id":"811","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/happy-birthday-to-me\/","name":"happy-birthday-to-me","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/IMG_2120-e1764644506587.jpg?fit=307%2C409&ssl=1","alt":"Author in orange dress standing in sunlight on a staircase for a birthday portrait"},"title":"Happy Birthday to Me","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Dec 4, 2025","dateGMT":"2025-12-04 11:00:00","modifiedDate":"2025-12-01 22:11:39","modifiedDateGMT":"2025-12-02 03:11:39","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/poetry\/\" rel=\"category tag\">POETRY<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/poetry\/\" rel=\"category tag\">POETRY<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/growth\/' rel='post_tag'>Growth<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":0,"sec":39},"status":"publish","content":"XXXV mars child, tuesday bornsun on sagittarius\u2019 bowfull moon adrift in cancervirgo, emerging eastlucky, intuitive, astutemagical girlsunrise in san Jose del caboTwenty-Nine frames roll byweary"},{"id":"808","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/pso-great-lakes-2025-lessons-in-patience\/","name":"pso-great-lakes-2025-lessons-in-patience","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Jade-Jaguar_Championship.jpeg?fit=400%2C400&ssl=1","alt":"Promo picture for PSO Great Lakes 2025. Author centered in the photo from a past performance. Gold circle around the author, Great Lakes above the circle, & After Dark below the circle. 20 on the left side and 25 on the right side."},"title":"PSO Great Lakes 2025: Lessons in Patience","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Nov 21, 2025","dateGMT":"2025-11-21 11:00:00","modifiedDate":"2025-11-20 22:11:31","modifiedDateGMT":"2025-11-21 03:11:31","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/pole\/\" rel=\"category tag\">POLE<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/pole\/\" rel=\"category tag\">POLE<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/pole-dance\/' rel='post_tag'>Pole Dance<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":4,"sec":1},"status":"publish","content":"This is about taking my time.A lesson I must learn in every lifetime. In 2024, I progressed when I slowed down, took deep breaths, didn\u2019t\u00a0tryto"},{"id":"803","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/following-bliss-on-sinners-saturday\/","name":"following-bliss-on-sinners-saturday","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/IMG_1629.png?fit=259%2C405&ssl=1","alt":"Email of ticket confirmation for Sinners IMAX reissue"},"title":"Following Bliss on \u2018Sinners\u2019 Saturday","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Nov 7, 2025","dateGMT":"2025-11-08 00:07:41","modifiedDate":"2025-11-10 15:18:16","modifiedDateGMT":"2025-11-10 20:18:16","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/story-time\/\" rel=\"category tag\">STORY TIME<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/story-time\/\" rel=\"category tag\">STORY TIME<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/flim\/' rel='post_tag'>Flim<\/a><a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/joy\/' rel='post_tag'>Joy<\/a><a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/travel\/' rel='post_tag'>Travel<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":6,"sec":58},"status":"publish","content":"I am the architect and author of my life. Following my bliss is a rule. There are no dependents with two legs or four, just"},{"id":"800","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/its-okay-to-start-over\/","name":"its-okay-to-start-over","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/clapperboard-e1761880242922.png?fit=281%2C333&ssl=1","alt":"Clapperboard with \"Production - My Life\", \"Director - Me\", \"Camera - Moi\", \"Day - 4\/9\", \"Scene - 76\", \"Take - 88\"."},"title":"It\u2019s Okay to Start Over","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Oct 31, 2025","dateGMT":"2025-10-31 10:00:00","modifiedDate":"2025-10-30 23:16:05","modifiedDateGMT":"2025-10-31 03:16:05","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/discipline\/' rel='post_tag'>Discipline<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":3,"sec":53},"status":"publish","content":"I start over all the time. Your first thought was probably the \u201cstart over\u201d that blows an old life to smithereens. Packing up, moving, leaving,"},{"id":"796","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/you-need-good-music\/","name":"you-need-good-music","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Morning-Sounds-e1761002729304.png?fit=592%2C395&ssl=1","alt":"Tidal playlist title section. \"Morning Sounds\" with cover art featuring Beyonc\u00e9's \"The Gift\", Hayley Williams's \"Petals for Armor\", Carlina's \"Lucky Girl\", and Destiny Child's \"Survivor\"."},"title":"You Need Good Music","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Oct 24, 2025","dateGMT":"2025-10-24 10:00:00","modifiedDate":"2025-10-20 19:29:42","modifiedDateGMT":"2025-10-20 23:29:42","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/music\/\" rel=\"category tag\">MUSIC<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/music\/\" rel=\"category tag\">MUSIC<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/growth\/' rel='post_tag'>Growth<\/a><a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/joy\/' rel='post_tag'>Joy<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":2,"sec":35},"status":"publish","content":"The beginning of the day can determine the remainder. We can always redirect throughout the day, but it helps to start with a good foundation."},{"id":"793","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/the-not-so-terrible-twos\/","name":"the-not-so-terrible-twos","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/IMG_9090-rev.jpg?fit=290%2C386&ssl=1","alt":"Woman in a black off shoulder top wearing an elephant pin and hoop earrings. Sitting in the car with the door open."},"title":"The Not So Terrible Two\u2019s","author":{"name":"Brianna","link":"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/author\/jirmjemy\/"},"date":"Oct 10, 2025","dateGMT":"2025-10-10 10:00:00","modifiedDate":"2025-10-08 20:00:05","modifiedDateGMT":"2025-10-09 00:00:05","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/category\/growth\/\" rel=\"category tag\">GROWTH<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/thoughtsontheredeye.com\/tag\/anniversary\/' rel='post_tag'>anniversary<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":3,"sec":0},"status":"publish","content":"Thoughts on the Red Eye is two years old! *cue confetti and peach cobbler a la mode* I will always celebrate the site\u2019s anniversary; it\u2019s"}]